Have you ever felt like you just don't belong where you are?

I always felt like that when I was living with my mother, mostly I think because of the way my step-father made me feel so unwelcome. Where I am now doesnt really feel like home in the spiritual OR physical sense. It just feels like Im at boarding school or something because the only reason I am here is for study.

Yeah, but it’s because my current home is with a parent that I don’t know if I want to live with. And so I always feel uncomfortable, and not in the picture. Since my father has a girlfriend with two sons. It’s just not really home to me. My indecision of which parent to stay with I guess. And having moved so many times, so I guess I never really get used to a place.

Yeah. I’m almost positive I’m adopted, because I’m nothing like my parents. I don’t look like them or act like them or anything, and I always feel so awkward.

I think everyone feels like that way in a sense when they dont have their own place to call home. I know I dont either & that is because \i moved back in with my parents to watch over & take care of my father! I hate it here, my mother & my brother have made sure I wouldnt feel welcome here & have caused issues to make my father sick when he has congestive heart failure! On top of it all my mother & brother have made it seem like this family is divided into 2 parts…my mother brother vs my dad & I…so you can understand the tension, the whispers behind the back when you enter or leave a room…and the constant conspiracy theories that also go along with it… I guess it’s like you know you dont belong somewhere…you can just feel it in your bones…like all of a sudden you get this urge to just leave…to just grab all your sh!t & just never look back…like something out there is so much better & just waiting for you to find it so you can feel whole…I seem to know that feeling oh too well! Have been forever…and probably always will!
Just know that you are not alone…I think we all feel that way for that reason, try to fill the void only because we still havent found what really completes us…when we do find it…that is when we will feel free…like we do belong…and it will feel so amazing…like as if a ton of bricks were lifted off our chest… Dont stop dreaming of that feeling…only you & you alone can find it….promise yourself to never stop looking til you find it…and it shall set you free…no matter what it is…:)

Alot..by the negative comments i can get..the way my other friends are and the way im not.in fact alot of the time i feel unnormal because of now and because of the past.but ive never really gotten over it.

Yes. I moved to this place, and I don’t belong at all. I want to move again.

Yes. I think its because my family dosent like me very much.

My family doesn’t like me very much either : \

yeah. mine loves my big sister and my little brother. hates me.

My parents don’t like anyone lol. I’m an only child. They pretend to love each other (and me) when I have friends over and such, but when they’re gone all hell breaks loose.

yeah same here.

-.- well that’s depressing :P

Either I’m not very in touch with my spiritual side or I’m completely at home here :3

It’s not really that they dont love you, I think they just dont understand you nor really care to! I mean I know that is how my mother is…she says she loves me one day then goes banana’s & uses me as a punching bag or just thinks I am in this whole conspiracy thing with my dad against her & my brother…see he is her little angel…so what ever he says goes…frankly i am done with that sh!t…I mean if parents cant respect us why should we respect them…it’s a 2 way street aint it?! Of course have to be tactful when doing so…:)

Lol my parents have never told me they loved me. When we’re alone they either ignore me or call me a fag :P I don’t think that’s love.

Their love for you is buried under a lot of crap ya know. If they bother telling you that then hell, they do love you :)

and you just allow them to call you that?! I mean seriously….you dont say anything back & just take it?!

Meh. It doesn’t bother me that much lol.

wow. well my mom called me a whore. she hasent told me she loves me in about 2 months. and me and her never get along. er always end up yelling at eachother. and my dad he used to love me! but lately he has been a d!ck to me.

Wait…Miguel are you HIGH??? lol I’m so lost..

Well grr them Ashley! Parents are g@y :P We don’t need them

No, I’m not high, my mother doesn’t tell me she loves me at all, even if I ask her. And sure there are times when she looks like she hates me but if that was the case, why is she still putting up with me, there has to be a logical reason for that. I might be high with optimism on that but I know that she loves me in some shape or form, not as much as my sisters but hey, it’s love.

I didn’t mean…I meant like…did I offend you?!?!? I meant like, whenever you post something I always get so confused…I never meant to offend you :((( I’m really really sorry.

ha i know i dont need them! but whenever i try to leave she yells at me!

lol, you didn’t offend me, I’m really sorry for confusing you, I’m trying to cheer you up a bit and sadly, it’s not working :(

I only feel like that when my parents favor my lil brother over me…

I think people have missed part of your Question. . .But oddly enough, some of those answers still apply I think. In a a spiritual sense, the only place God can live is in the “now” So where must I live if I am to have some type of connection? God doesnt live inside my hopes and dreams, or my imaginations, or my fears. If i am to live inside his reality where is that? Right here. This split second. I cannot change the past, and I cannot change the future by merely thinking about it, so that leaves us with the only place and time where God can help us, right here, right now.

lol ashley that’s probably because…well isn’t it illegal to leave before you’re 18? lol XD and okay Miguel…D: you had me scared lol. And it’s pretty much impossible for me to be happy right now XDDD

cracks knuckles I’m up for a good challenge haha, I love making impossible possible :3

lol you shouldn’t even try XD it won’t work :P

What do you mean not try? I don’t know what that is…!!! I never heard such nonsense, is that English?!

I think love is a very confusing topic…but not feeling like you belong maybe due to the way we are treated…I think parents take kids too much for granted as some kids may take advantage of parents as well…like my brother mooches off my parents left & right & even though they scream & yell at him, he doesnt give rat’s @ss…he does what he wants when he wants it & then has the nerves to scream & shout getting a p!ssy and having an attitude…so you see i also think it is also about mutual respect…respect one another & show love & appreciation…they feed you, support you, clothe you & when you are sick & whiny & call out to them, if they are there they come…if they arent then you are on your own…but you are warm…using a computer & have to respect them for at least that much! It could be worse! You could be hungry, cold, have no where to sleep, have no way to speak to us on your computer and have so many holes in your clothes that even the slightest bit of air makes your skin full of goose bumps! have to see it from both sides…remember, never loose sight of being open minded…meaning seeing things through both sides of the looking glass not just one side…♥ night all

good advice…lets all just try to focus on the here & now…♥

Sometimes I think I landed in the wrong body…

i feel sometimes that i have to leave my home,am not in the right place,cuz my parents only cares for my big bro”alex”.he,s the dragon of our home,he,s alwayz against me.he is the final decision maker.he,s against my friends.he,s my step brother.my dad dont like to call me even with my name.he usually calls me like”where,s that fool.,,,hey come here,,,hey go to school,,,,,hey dont go out with your friends,,,,,hey dont call your gf,,,,,,hey dont talk like this with your big bro.but i never mind.my step mum really cares for me,but my real dad,no.but its okay.i feel like am in my home

In the spiritual sence I thought I did, but never truly did untill I found my faith, I’m so happy where I am now. In the personal sence I’ve always felt at home, I have a mother a father a younger brother and several nieces and aunts that make my life into the close knit cluster that it is, I love my family and would never want anything else.

yeah Though I’m hoping that once I get my life on track everything will fall into place.

i dont know, you were born so you MUST belong SOMEWHERE, either that or you belong as a travling person. lucky you, although you might get short on money

ya, thats why i’m moving:D

Who does not feel that way at one point in time.

im differnt than my friends in my head. like i appear liek them cuz i try to act like them but i dont think like them. and im just not like any1. i wanna leave where i live but i dont think it would help cuz im just differnt. i belive im older in my head like way way older

i feel that way everytime i wake up in the morning. It just feels like i dont fit in with how evrything is now. My interests are in things that are not from this time. I feel way far off from belonging.