How do I get my boyfriend's mom to give me another chance?

Since you’ve apologized, and she didn’t accept it…..only threatened to blackmail you….there is little you can do. You could tell your own mom what his mom knows, and then she won’t have anything to hang over your head….can you tell your own mother?

yeah exactly what I was going to say..just talk with her, be real

the mature thing to do would be, bring up to your parents what was said on facebook, and let them know that it was a mistake.. your parents are going to be more happy that you told them before anyone else did. they might be able to help you see your boyfriend. if that does not work trust me i have been in the same boat where the parents wouldn’t let someone see me… and they have good reasons for it every parent does.. so your best bet so you don’t get in trouble and so you don’t have to sneak around be with someone else or just not date for awhile.. you are too young to be stuck on one person who sounds like you wont be able to see!!!.. or maybe do something nice for his mom like bring her flowers in person and tell her you want to make amends!!!

Honestly.. and I know when you’re younger this is harde, but one day when you’r all growed up you’ll come to the realization that a parent’s concent and approval doesn’t really mean or matter all that much.

Sometimes people never grow up and they continually hang on what mommy and daddy thinks or says, they never cut the cord and become their own person.

So if they;’re really worth it, and they’re mature enough to handle a real relationship, then who gives a crap what his mom thinks? if you like him you want to be with him then do it you’re dating him, not his mom.

i wish i could really help.. i have done a lot of things to hurt my fiance and his mom know about it and he still love me to death.. A lot of times God through stuff in your face because e wats them apart. you have o look at the signs. if a parent don’t like yo 9 times out of ten its not gone work

FACEBOOK!!! The root of all evil… keep ur personal life of it especially if you have family, friends, bfs and their mums ,lurking around!

you have an anonymous advice site like this one right here to discuss your personal life!

trust hun! ive learnt the hard way!

and just be honest with everyone, that way no stupid fool can blackmail you or hold this tiny mistake over your head for the rest of your life its not fair. besides parents love their kid, yes they would probably get mad at, but they evetually come around and, will forgive and forget. they are parents after all its wat they do! remb they love u! and love is unconditional.

so start off by speaking to your mum,tell her you love her and wanne be hinest about everything.. she cannot refuse or disregard your efforts at being good..

thereafter approach your bfs mum .. sit her down and tell her that you have explained tour mum, it was a mistake and you have learnt from it..

at the end of the day you will also feel better about yourself..

goodluck hun..

im totally in that situation too. moms are so stubborn sometimes.