How can I get my 11-month-old to like his father?

It’s natural for your kid to prefer you at that age. My littlest sister would scream if my Mom left the room, and barely acknowledge my Dad when he tried to pick her up and comfort her. It’s not that he doesn’t like his Dad, it’s that he likes you more. At that age, kids’ lives revolve around their needs, and a relationship with his dad isn’t a need at that age. Don’t worry, he’ll definitely grow to love his dad.

Dear moodychic1984, Begin by all 3 of you spending time together. There must never be any harsh words or anything physical if front of your child. This may take a bit but once the child feels that you trust the father and you are comfortable around him the baby should relax a bit more. Children will pick up the slightest mood changes and fear among the adults. Never force him to be alone with the father if he doesn’t want to be. Your good modeling with the father will help with the situation. Sue…good luck

Kids naturally like their mommy’s better. However, sometimes, they’ll want to hang out with daddy, too - what you need to do is discuss the issue with his father, encourage him to spend time with the baby (well, toddler at this point) and play silly games - peekaboo, etc, to make sure the child feels safe & secure around him.

If your son has any toys he likes, try to get his dad to play with those & him together, the more his dad can connect with him (make him laugh, etc, things that form a bond) then the more likely he’ll have a more balanced approach with both of you later on.

Hope this helps.

Best,

thedude