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who can give me some good advice? I need to be put straight?

Well it started not long ago , when my mom hit me cause I didn’t wanna come home till she spoke to me about my problems, but she never and she hit me and called me selfish, well not long after that, I lied were I was , I was with my uncle , but I said I was with a friend, im not supposed to see my uncle. When I got home she knew I weren’t with my friend and she said I want your Xbox and laptop I was fine with that. But she wanted my phone and for The first time I stood up to her I said no, and she went mental and started beating me, she asked her boyfriend to hold me down, and she had her hands round my neck. I’m not even allowed to go out withsome one I’ve fallen for, I’ve had my fair share of relationships, im of legal age by the way. My mom never approved of the dude and now we arn’t allowed to talk or see eachother. Now I cant sleep cause of her, im scared of her, I’ve had restless nights, I’ve started eating loads, and I just cant concentrate, I don’t feel well about myself either, im sorry if it seems im attention seeking, I just need advice, cause I wanna move out when I’ve finished school to my uncles, but im scared what will happen, my uncle said he will take me in

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Answer #1

‘There’s no point in staying with someone like that - you’ll only prolong your misery. Get hold of any social welfare people and try to talk to your uncle in letting you stay in his place for the time being…’ This a thousand times. There is no reason for her to beat you. It’s not normal. If you’re of legal age, I don’t see how she could stop you from moving out.

‘she asked her boyfriend to hold me down, and she had her hands round my neck.’ is definitely something you should not stand for. It’s not even legal, is it? You could call the police.. or should talk to someone you can trust. It sounds like you’re putting your life in danger by remaining there.. If you’re in that bad of a situation, don’t stay just for the sake of school; It would be more important to save yourself. You could continue your education a bit later. Home-schooling, going to school again, whichever. There would be no shame in it, if it’s for a good reason. I’d suggest talking to someone at your school..

Answer #2

maybe you should just talk to your uncle about gettin you out of there right away, if you have any marks from your mom hitting you and stuff then you can go to the police. otherwise if you dont wanna leave home then you need to talk to your mom and tell her how you feel. and tell her that if the hitting and beating doesnt stop then you are gonna go to the police.

Answer #3

you need to just get out of there. if you are of legal age, you can move out and yer mom cant stop u.

Answer #4

There’s no point in staying with someone like that - you’ll only prolong your misery. Get hold of any social welfare people and try to talk to your uncle in letting you stay in his place for the time being…

You’ll only end up being as worse as they are in the long run if insist to be with them…

Answer #5

This question has been asked manny times and the same I’m going to answer call somebody there is absolutly no point of being there if you are scared and you just don’t feel contorble.

1800-4-A-CHILD. www.newhopenow.com 911

This can all help you out and also to get out of there, It’s all up to you, you wanna get help or not.

GOOD LUCK:)

Answer #6

Just get out of there.

Answer #7

it would be easier if I knew my dad :) lol sorry

Answer #8

and..you didnt just call the cops for what reason?

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