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I have issues, and need a lot of advice

Im 23 years old live with my girl and her family.(mother- mother baby father and 3 brothers and 2 sister) see we been going through some problems for a few years and I will say that it was because of me seeing other females. But heres my problem I been living with them for 4 years now and I want to leave and get my own apartment. Im tried of living this way. It feel like am trapped in my room because that all I have and thats not even totally mines. I feel like im more feel when im in my car then any other place and thats a sad feeling. And to keep it real the car is not 100% mines because am paying for it every month. I plan on getting this apartment with a friend and move from there, but the only thing is that I dont now if am if shes going to come or if am going to bring her. I dont know if I want her to come . She is a family oriented person and I am too but I tried of living with her family so I was thinking that I leave and give her a key to the apartment I just do not now all I can say is that am tried and trapped. Am able to take a shower when I come back ill write part 2 .

Ps sorry for the misspelled word just free writing.

Ice

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Answer #1

Ok, well honestly.. I would advise you to step it up a notch.. and be independent, go ahead and get the apartment with your friend as soon as you have a steady job, and can provide for yourself, then tell your girlfrined to come see you from time to time if she wants… so you can have your space.. :] good luck.

Answer #2

I definitely think you should move out and be independant if you can afford it… and maybe your girlfriend wont move right in with you, but she’s not going anywhere, she can spend some nights etc, and you can go over there too… when she gets tired of living with her parents she’ll move out (I mean she’s not going to live there forever…)

oh and if there’s a part 2, could you pls not write in all caps? it’s a little hard to read…

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