What should I choose if my mom hates me so much?

Oky me an mom just got into a f!ght, and a big one, I know im a brat and im kinda rude to my mom because shes the same way to me I used to cut my wrist but because of my friends I stopped she kinda found out when she saw the scars but she never confronted me about it or even cares, but shes saying im always negitive and stuff and truth is I am around her though I cant be positive when someone is yelling at me so I yell back and I got really pi$sed and screamed at her”do you want a reason why I cut my wrist mom, it you!!!” or somthing like that, and my dad choked me and has no custidy but I dont want him to have custidy to me for what he did…twice but after I yelled at her about the wrist she yelled back “you know amber, there are group homes you can live in, ‘because god know im tierd of this!” and I kinda want to but when she said that I reliazed she must have thought of sending me there because she knows about everything and stuff, and the only one I ever really got along with and talk to was my brother and lucky him he moved out a few months ago sadly I already go to two therapist but they dont really help…at all, im not sure what to do and im not talking to her so dont leave a messege like just tell her how you feel and blah blah blah because honestly we will end up in a fight, so should I go to a group home or stay in my h3ll house?