How can I help my boyfriend and be supportive?

His best friend just killed himself and he’s a mess and I have no idea what to do… :/ Usually hes okay within a day but its been 4days and hes still majorly depressed and it makes me depressed too because I dont know what to do.. Help please!

Answer #1

Aww sad =( Well it’s best to make sure you’re sensitive to what he’s feeling right now. By this I mean some people like to talk about it, it helps them feel better to remember the good times of the loved ones. But some people, on the other hand, want to be left alone about it becuase it may be still a really sensitive subject. If I were you, I would let him know that you’re there if he does wanna talk about it with you, but don’t push it if he doesn’t want to. He’s just going through stages of mourning, it happens usually that people deal with it in different way’s that’s all. =/ Hope all gets better for you guys!!

Answer #2

thanks :/

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