What to do about him? How do I solve this?

I know you understand that it’s cheating but do you understand that you’re no exception to it? He can do it to you as well, and this situation is enough evidence to suggest that. I would also like to remind you that knowing him for a year doesn’t mean you know everything about him, I’m sure he has kept some lies from you. I have friends I knew for quite a long time and I was never aware of their personal lives.

All I’m asking is that you let him work this out, if he truly does like you then he will try to fix the mess he is making. Remember that he is hurting his girlfriend and that’s something to keep in mind. The position his girlfriend is in can well be you if you’re not careful. I only ask of you to be careful with yourself, a cheater isn’t worth all the fuss. Try not to let him get to you until he has this all worked out, it’s to keep you from being hurt and keeping his girlfriend from being hurt. Don’t air out your trust to him so easily, let him earn it and then you can decide from there.

Do be careful.

yeah I understand it was cheating and I understand it was wrong, I know his personality, and yeah its sad that it can pull me in like that, but I’ve known him for almost a year… and dont get me wrong I felt horrible. but I know that saying, and hes the only “cheater” I’ve let my guard down for… and I understand that if I do date him then thats me putting my trust out there

Also remember that if she finds out it’s a possibility he would confess his undying love for her and beg for her forgiveness and then she is going to want to see or hear him tell you to never call again and then you’ll be alone just like that, in a blink of an eye. Just be careful and smart…it’s your decision to place judgement on your situation.

Been there…done that