My mom dont like my fiance

I am going crazy. Our wedding is in june and my mom is not happy for me cause she dont like my fiance that I been with for 8 years. she dont like talking to me about the wedding and she will change the subject. And tonight she tells me I dont need a big wedding dress because we already have to kids and she mentioned also that I dont need any bridesmaids and groomens.to make it small.and to me it’s like there goes my day. I just cant take it anymore I am one step from just going to the court house. What do I do?

Answer #1

she’s just raining on your paraied an sounds kinda not to nice I think you should do what ever makes you happy hteir noy marring him you are . good luck an congrads on hte wedding an as far an the dresses you only get to have one good wedding ok well maybe more but what if it is your only one. so make the most of it . just have fun an do what makes you happy

Answer #2

ignore her. you dont need her to be happy with your decision. It sucks, but it is her loss that she isnt going to be part of your life with your future husband. Just dont talk to her about the wedding.You still deserve your big day. If she cant be mature enough to put aside her differences with your fiance, then she doesnt even deserve to part of this.

Answer #3

Your wedding day is supposed to be one of the best days of your life. Don’t listen to what she says. If you feel as though you want a big wedding with all the things that come with it, then go for it. Let her know that it is YOUR day and you do not want her ruining it because she doesn’t like you fiancee. After all, it will be you that has to spend the rest of your life with him. Not her!

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