Anoying I guess I'll call her stepmom!

Everytime my father gets married… The woman contacts me! My father never contacts me before these times and he usually never talks to me… Well his latest “wife” won’t leave me alone… She invited me on myspace, and when I told her that I didn’t want her to be my friend I already had a mother… She verbally bashed my mother, so I blocked her and deleted her, and now she keeps finding ways to invite me to online things, and won’t leave me alone as much as I tell her to… What do I do??? About someone who is this annoying and apparently can’t get the message…

Answer #1

From what you’ve said, it seems that you have even more of a good reason to block and delete her. Do you live with your mum or your dad by the way?

Answer #2

you are bratty

Answer #3

ooo wooow dats just great shes like wanting to be friends with you but just block her as much as possible!!! lol. good luck.

Answer #4

hey ,

   I think she was trying to be friends with you at first which is understandable - then I think she got angry that you said no , youve handled it as best as possible I think, Have you phoned ure dad a t all or is that out of the question?

Oh and you are no way are brat - trust me x

Answer #5

I think that the defining factor between her being a “brat” and her not being one is the fact that, on deletion, her “stepmum” decided to verbally bash her mum. Due to this, I think she has every right to block and delete her, and those of you calling her bratty should probably put themselves in her shoes. As to what should be done, maybe you need to express your feelings to her face to face

Answer #6

My mom, my father isn’t exactly my favorite person. And the thought of being in the same room as that woman… unexplainable fear! She is absolutely insane! And the texas accent adds somewhat to the illusion; in so, if I ever met her… I could picture her pulling out a steak knife from her apron… and saying “ya’all will see what happens when I’m in charge of the show”… (Line from one of her insane emails!) …lol…I’m rambling… sorry… =)

Answer #7

why is she bratty? stuff like this can really hurt a person.

Answer #8

Thanks for the advice, and the defense…=) I can’t tell her to her face though because they live in a state on the other side of the u.s. from us. Also we don’t have the money or the time to go over there.

Heres my argument for not being a brat, he changes wives like every three years, and every time, his new wife contacts me… not him… Otherwise he never calls, visits, or asks for me to visit. I am usually nice to his new wives, but they didn’t constantly try to be my friend and left me alone. So I told her I didn’t want to be her friend, and she started off on this whole line about my mom being insane, and me being young and dumb and called my mom a lezbian! She pretty much sent me this huge 15 paragraphs verbally bashing me and my mother (who she has never met, or really talked to)… So I told her that after that, I didn’t want anything to do with her, and if my dad had any respect for me then they should just leave me alone, and I would stay out of there lives. She sent me another verbal bashing telling me I was childish and a bunch of lies I know aren’t true about visitation rights… I’ve seen the papers…and some of the things she said really hurt my feelings, so I deleted her and blocked her. I have never even seen my father, not since I was 2, and I talk to him only when he gets married which leaves like a 3 year space between each time…

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