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What to do if he's practicing self control and won't touch me?

I’m a 15 year old girl. I have a 18 year old boyfriend. He cares very much for me. He doesn’t cheat or anything (I keep tabs on him). Now I want to have sex and he wants it too. Everytime I come near him he gets hardons.That makes me want him more. But my mom and him recently turned friends and because of that and other things in his mind he’s changed his mind. He’s on lockdown. NO sex. He’s practicing self control.That really bugs me. I tried masturbation but it didn’t fill the need to have sex with him and it’s driving me insane.I don’t want to do it with anyone else but him.I don’t know what to do.IS there anyone who can advise on what to do???

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Answer #1

Dear sweetcherry0123, Your mother probably advised him not to have sex with you. Although 15 and 18 don’t seem to far apart in age…they are when it comes to sex. If you were to make a mistake and get pregnant it is you who would have to have the responsibility to carry this child and raise it. Until you are 19 your family is responsible for finances of the baby if you are not married and at home. So you mother probably convinced your boyfriend that you are not ready for a baby and either is he and he is taking her advice seriously and so should you. You have just been faced with a decision that requires some maturity one of many you will face in your lifetime. Be thankful it is a decision not to have sex not a decision about raising a child at 15. Sue…good luck

Answer #2

your only 15, dont get your box smashed yet

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