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Why is my girlfriend sometimes on and sometimes off?

me and my girlfriend have been going out over a year and 9 months. I am very sexually active when I’m with her, like I want to feel her all the time..sometimes she says she doesn’t want me to be..I mean I just touch her and stuff like that. and at other times she’s horny as well and wants we to touch her…we’ve seen each other naked but haven’t had any sex..just fingering and she gave me a bj a couple of times only..I dont get why she sometimes is on and somtimes off..drives me nuts..I think I need to control myself a bit but why does she tell me to stop one time and then tells me to continue?? do I really need to control myself??

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Answer #1

Superfresh is right. I think anyone who has had sex admits that once you have done it or something close to it feels good enough that sometimes you don’t want to say no. She might tell you no because she knows once it gets to that level it won’t stop so she stops it before it starts. just give it sometime, don’t rush things, both of you can learn a little self control, and respect each other

Answer #2

obviously you will be horny with her, you’re a guy! she will be horny when she wants you to touch her and stuff… but if she doesn’t want you to then she’s not in the mood. thats just her sex drive. my boyfriend can be honry practically any time of the day. I find I get horny a lot about him, but not always. she just isnt comfortable with you touching her all the time… watch some porn or look at some mags and calm down a bit. you’ll have sex when the times right so don’t pressure her =)

Answer #3

my girlfriend is kinda like that. cept she gives me mixed signals. she tawks about her butt all the time but I not allowed to touch it. she talks a lot about how she thinks she is a slut and stuff (shes a scorpio and thats supposed to be her characteristics) but at the same time she wont sit in my lap if we make out. its so weird. I know how and what you mean, but just do as she says and be lucky you got her.

Answer #4

I think you need some self control, and also, you should be respectful of her wishes, dont rush her into anything, and maybe she isnt ready for sex, that is the reason you are in the relationship with her, because you love her, so don’t do anything to ruin this relationship, slow down, and when it is really time to have sex,[marriage] lol, then the timing should be just right… :]

Answer #5

=) 10x for the advice..kind of nice to hear that im not the only one with this situaton..helps a lot..10x a lot people

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