What to do if my Mom hates me?

she seems abusive, and she cares for you just try to stay away from her.

what a b*tch you should go to the police and I mean seriously go because then the truth will get out

Your mom needs help so does your Dad they are sick… I, sorry you have parents who arent able to care for you properly seek out your school guidance counseler. another Mother

im going through the same thing right now, not as severe but im incredily depressed, and I rsort to drugs and alchahol somtimes, barly ever thoguh because I now its wrong. but what you have to do is find someother place to go, you cant continue to live in that place because eventually you will break and thers nothin you can do about that. I will say one thing, and thats suicide is not the answer. I have a friend that is suicidal and hes had the worst life ever. look at it like this. keep on keepin on and eventually you will be able to make your own decisions. I mean this you will have the life you want , you must continue though, and not give up, I believe that when you work hard at somthing you wiill get it. im incrediby sorry for what your going through.

Well, first of all I have to say sorry ‘cause my English. I’m not British nor American. I’m a Hungarian 18-year-old guy with the same problems: -shouting at me all the time(my room is not cleaned, etc..) -shouting at me because I’m not learning(I have only As, and a few Bs…) and a lot more tipical things. Well, sometimes I would like to escape from this “hell”, but I think leaving home is not the solution. Just try to ignore her, close your room’s door, turn the music on and put your headset on. And never answer to her when she is shouting…she will get bored after a while. Yeah, it’s a bit strange…18-year-old guy at home… but I’m still doing my studies, in Hungary you leave high school at the age of 18. If your parents hit you, just shut the door and go to your granny and tell her/him what happened. Well my mom never hits me because she can’t;p, but I hate those daily shouts…daily…in every hour. After all when I go out I feel so sticky, I’m thinking about things like “why I am here?”…”why haven’t I borned somewhere else?”…”why should I listen her all the time”…”why I am still alive…?” Well life is not a fair thing, believe me I understand you! My father left us when I was 1-year-old. Both of my granddads are dead. Died in the same months. I was shocked …started smoking. My mom doesnt know that but sometimes I feel that I can’t leave without it. When I’m upset or sad, I usually feel much better after a cig on the fresh air, at night. Life teaches you how to live, and it gives you a lot hard tumbler, and this helps you to be strong! Be strong lady, everything has an end. Making it short is not the solution. Farewell,

        Zsolt

Welcome to my world… I am well familiar with the crazy mother phenomenon, but she loves you (yes I promise she does) even if sometimes she acts worse than your worst enemy…

The best way I dealt with mine was avoidance… I would be in my room as much as possible… I know it isnt the ideal solution, but you will graduate in a couple of years, then guess what? she cant tell you what to do anymore, and you can have a boyfriend, you can go out when you like for however long you like…

You also need to let go this idea of the perfect, supportive, sweet, doting mother. Some mothers just arent like that and instead of fighting the fact that you got a mother like yours, accept it… It took me a while to figure this out, but you cant change other people. You can only change yourself… You need to believe that you are not the fat, untidy (whatever else she calls you) person. You know yourself, and just because she is insulting you doesnt make it true. No it’s not fair. And the last person that should be saying these things is your mother. And it is hurtful. But, she is who she is, and you cant change that. You need to remind yourself of your worth, and when she starts to get to you, go to a friend and have them remind you (over and over and over as many times as needed until you remember that this is not your problem it is your mother’s problem)

Get a different therapist. If you are still suicidal and cutting and s/he is not helping then talk to someone else.

If you can convince your mother to try family councelling, I would go for it…

I dont think your mom hates you…shes probably going through a phase perhaps… how long has this been going on? btw commiting suicide is not the answer! dont throw your life away because I’m sure you have so much to offer. if you believe in yourself then nothing else should matter.

why dont you try to confront her, or try going to therapy with the whole family. it might help. if you have a close relative you get along with..then you could move out for awhile to see how it goes..

good luck =]

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