What should I do, im married and another man kissed me?

Ok im happily married for the last 4 years. A couple weeks ago I went out to the club and I was drinking so were my friends,one who had brought a man with her. Well to get to the chase, the guy practicaly ate my face off before I pushed him off. I wanted to tell my husband but I know he will blow up thinking something elce happend when it didnt, mainly cause he’s in iraq and cant spy on me. He gets mad at a lot of things while he’s deployed. But the thing is its buggin me cause I never lie to him and I always tell him everything. So im asking should I tell him? Maybe wait till we move to tell him, lol. Or should I just try and make myself forget about that night?

Answer #1

If I was the husband, I’d be concerned if you wanted to go out while I was home. But since he’s in Iraq, it’s perfectly normal.. I think it’s hard for him since he’s all the way out there.. but I think he would respect the fact that you’re telling him, because you didn’t have to. You telling him will let him know that you want to be honest with him.

On the other hand, him being thousands of miles away, what can he do but worry? That could put things in his head, depending on what kind of person he is and how much he trusts you. You could say something like.. ‘’Yeah, when we went out, so and so tried to hit on me… so no going out for me for a while!’’ You know, like say it casually lol.

You know him, and you know how he’ll handle the news. Picture the roles reversed, if you were in Iraq and your husband told you he went to a club and a girl tried to kiss him… how would you react? Anyway, good luck! :)

Answer #2

If you dont have anything nice to say dont leave comments

Answer #3

I’m sorry if I came off that way I was just trying to be brutally honest and think like her husband would…But I still stick to what advice I gave.

Answer #4

Sexy and sweet21 was dead on with what she said. Haha, her name is a bit deceiving. That advice wasn’t very sweet, but it was the truth. Your husband sort of has every right to be angry. He’s out fighting for his country while you’re out at the bar.

You don’t always have to give a guy a sign to kiss you for him to do it, but you sort of always know when it’s about to happen and can, for the most part stop it from happening.

If it were me, I would tell my husnband about it. Actually, if it were me it never would have happend.

Whether or not you tell him is up tp you, but telling him would be the right thing to do.

Answer #5

If I was your husband, I would feel that just you going to a club would mean that I’m not exciting enough for you, and I wouldn’t like it! That may just be me though.

Secondly, if he knows you go to the clubs and he’s fine with it be honest, but he may get angry since you waited so long to tell him, on top of the possibility of him being angry just because another man kissed you. Personally, I wouldn’t be upset at all except for you going to clubs (sorry but what else are they for?) and you waiting so long to tell me, but I wouldn’t let it end our relationship.

It comes down to: Can you take the heat? :)

Answer #6

I don’t believe in the “He kissed me bs” because at one point or another you obviously gave him a sign to kiss you and it takes two to kiss and you said he practically ate your face off before you got him off, there is no way someone is going to stick their tongue in my mouth without me knowing. I think you should tell your husband and stop going out drinking to get drunk while he is in Iraq, I am not trying to be harsh, but I am telling you he will NOT believe the “he kissed me” or “it just happened so fast” bs because that’s exactly what it is BS.

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