What do I do- I am self conscious about my labia?

My boyfriend really want’s to eat me out, but I am scared he will think my labia is large. He has fingered me before- but I am still scared.

A lot of poeple say “if he loves you, it shouldn’t matter”. But I still feel like mine are overly large.

I love him, he loves me. We are really comfortable around each other as well.. but I’m just nervous he will think it is gross.

Is it a turn off to have a big labia? Also- Does it taste bad to eat a girl out?

Answer #1

Well dont worry. If you are nervous tell him. if you really love each other then you should tell him how you feel and that you want him to but just to reassure you to tell you how it is for him. Umm I dont think it is? And everyone tastes different and it changes depending on your mensteral cycle. =) x

Answer #2

hunnn, I promise you everyone is different and its true what they say, with love comes acceptance and you see through all of the imperfections and I’m sure you’ll find he loves you how you are because your you. You can’t change and Im sure he wouldn’t want you to. Lets face it I’m sure no boy would be as shallow to ditch a girl they love because of the size of your labia. xxx

Answer #3

well babe….dont feel to freak bout this,,,,but as a bisexual girl with experience in this…i would like to let you know that alot of guys will find it attractive alot wont care and some wont like it….it really depends….i guess if he’s fingered you he would probably he felt that they were longer…i have them too….my labia are long…and on a personal opinion it think it way hotter…there just more there to get your lips around….obviously he wants to eat you out, and im sure as we all know guys watch dirty stuff, he has probably already seen an array of of labia’s…. and i agree with angelicx it depends where you are….just keep urself clean and check for anything that looks gross like bad smelling discharge or white lumpy stuff….that usually means an infection…

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