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I'm nervous and self conscious

ok im 15. I’ve been dating this guy for almot 10 months and im such a chicken. he’s fingered me and ate me out but im’ tooo chicken to do anything to him. I want to sooo bad, but I don’t know what I’m scared of. its not that I dont want to. and its not that I’m gay! [gross] but I just dont have the guts to do it. and I was afraid that I would mess up but im not worried about messing up any more and he said that he would help me! hes a great guy and I like him ALOTTT. <33 and I dont want to make myself look stupid! helllppp?!?!?!?!?

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Answer #1

it doesnt mean your chiken at all it just means your not ready and there is nothing wrong with being gay I no your not gay you made that clear with the ‘gross’ your time will come and you will know when your ready…

Answer #2

yeh you should deffinatly wait till your ready, but also If you guys have been dateing for so long and he is understanding than just tell him your nervous and mabey he will help you through it , hope im sum help :)

Answer #3

if you are scared that just means you aren’t ready. Take your time, calm down, wait until it comes naturally.

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