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What do I do. im so worried I might lose him?

hay I have a porblem, ok I love my boyfriend so much but I have a cuple of secrets that I did behind his back but if I tell him he WILL leave me but I really want to tell him I feel so bad but I dont want to lose him I just dont no how to tell him or if I should but I also have a smoking porblem to and he knows it and if I dont stop its over but I want to quit but I dont no how to ether . so I was hopeing someone could help me ?

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To stop smoking… well patches, pills, etc… but the best way is to love him more than the cigarettes. Focus on him and you’ll get through it.

As for the secrets… Well a good healthy relationship is completely honest. To be honest he needs to know if you went behind his back. And basically you need to be at his mercy when you do. And stick by whatever he decides. Love is forgiving… I’m sorry but its honesty. I wish you the best.

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