I feel really alone

Lately I’ve been feeling really alone. I pretty much have nobody. im homeschooled, so all day, every week day, I see nobody. I have a girlfriend, for 3 years. but since im only 16, and she lives a half hour away. I only see her on weekends. so until the weekends, I dont have anybody. nobody to talk to. my girlfriend calls me, but not like she used to. Maybe a year ago, she would always call at 8, and we’d talk till about 11. now she calls between 9:30 and 10, and then gets off the phone to go to bed at 10:30, sometimes sooner, most of the time sooner. and she just talks about her day, and what books she’s read, and what movie she watched, and thats it, I dont really talk about what im thinking or whats on my mind. I probably sound horrible for saying that, I really do love her. but I feel like I have nobody. I dont see anybody, or talk to anyone, until I talk to my girlfriend for a bit. but like I said, I dont actually talk to her much, mostly listen. I dont really know what im asking here, I guess I just need to get it all out. im so sick of being alone all the time, and I dont know what to do. its just slowly killing me inside. I dont know what to do with myself anymore, it really sucks. can anybody help?

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Answer #1

This might seem difficult to you but it’s not impossible.I’ve gone through such situations many times and the best thing is to try until you succeed.Never be put off.

Answer #2

Can you sign up for any sports? Make some friends by that. Funmail me if you need to (:

Answer #3

yeah, but its not like I can drive anywhere, I dont have a permit. and there arent any parks within walking distance, theres nothing really at all near me that I can walk to. I just live in a small neighborhood, with nobody really. mostly little kids. and a couple people my age that I dont get along with, they do drugs and drink and all that, and I dont want to be around that.

Answer #4

Dude! The friends thing! It can work! I believe in you!! Just start talking to random people! Go outside! Go to parks late at night! Come on man! :D

Answer #5

competely understandable…I see wh you feel like that…best thing is to stay positive…try starting up interesting conversations yourself…everything will work out in time

xoxo

Answer #6

Yeah, its just hard. And I feel like theres nothing I can do, I dont really have friends, just my girlfriend. I try starting conversations sometimes, but I feel like she’s always doing something else while we’re talking, so its hard. like the other day I was telling her a story, but she was watching TV, so she didnt know what I was talking about, and I didnt feel like telling it again because I was talking for about 20 minutes. so I dont know, its just hard to not have anyone. :/

Answer #7

Thanks everyone. I’ve taken so much more action since I posted this. I told my girlfriend, and she talked with me and made me feel better. we still dont talk as much as I would like, but I feel better. im trying to put myself out there more. im pursuing what I would love to do, by trying to start a band with a person that I just started talking to, hopefully through him I’ll a couple more really cool dudes to play some music with, and honestly, I just feel 100 times happier.

thank you everyone, really. thank you

Answer #8

Hm, well I would suggest you to start telling her whats on your mind. Chicks dig it, man. Seriously. We Love it. And, get a friend! :D Really, just start taking walks outside and eventually you’ll run into some buddy. :D Its funn and easy! :D Parks and cafe’s are the coolest places to meet new people. Or maybe you can just go to a near by high school, like, after the school is out and start randomly talking to people. :) That’s always a good idea. :) lol

Answer #9

There’s people that Are Worse Than that .. I Moved Away From All of My MAtes that I’ve known all my life. I even moved away from some guy that I’ve fancyed over 2 YEars. And I’ve been doing nothing all day. because I am home schooled aswell. I have no mates. I dont have a boyfriend. who lives haf Hour Away But I Wish I had someone. I Know how you Feell. But Just think abotu it ye. it wil get better, you just gotta sit and wait ;)

Answer #10

I used to play sports, but last year I hurt my knee really bad and tore my ACL, and I need surgery, but I cant get it till I stop growing, which might not be for 2 more years, so I cant play sports.

its feels like every possible way to feel better is just shot down. I dont have anything, I just stay in my room all day, everyday. I didnt mind for a while, but now its getting to me, and I feel so much worse everyday.

I feel really alone

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