How can I tell my Mom that I'm not a virgin?

domnt tell you’r mom right now wait until you’r 18 and when you move out then tell her! (lol)

I agree the sooner, the better. Then at least she can get you some birth control.

i just wanna know r u from Pleasant Grove,Al cause u look familiar and da pic look like it waz taken at PGHS in front of the lunchroom??

let me know how u r doing in the future, love you like A sistah!!

                                                                     A.Bryant

Well 13 yrs old it not a time to be thinking about children at all. You still have alot of growing up to do, and schooling to get finished!

Your mom cant be too surprised that you are not a virgin, since she allows your boyfriend to stay the night with you.

Just tell her right away, and get it over with. The sooner the better!

Dear regardless, Well you know we will say shame on your mother for allowing your boyfriend to stay. What a very bad decision on her part. Keeping that in mind you also have made very bad choices. First you need to see a doctor NOW…if you need your mother to make the appointment then you may have to tell her. You also have to stop having sex until you spoke with a doctor and had testing for STDS and to see if you are pregnant. The doctor will give you birth control information and steer you in the right direction if you are pregnant. Nothing is 100% and having unprotected sex is just very immature and dangerous. You are not ready to be parents since you cannot make proper decisions for yourself. Sue….good luck