How do I tell my mom I was raped by my uncle

I was raped many times by my uncle and I dont know how to tell her because shes really sick. So I want to tell my mentor but she wont listen to me. If I write her a note because all she will do is throw it away. I love my mom and my mentor to deat but I dont know how to tell. Also the fact that my grades are being effected by it. Like its so bads that I will be in the bathroom crying and I will miss classes because of this. The worse part is, my uncle lives with me so I dont know to call 911 if he tries it again and risk get taken away and my family split up or just beat his a. Because im scard to fight back because I know he will hit me if I do and hes a lot bigger than me and I dont want to die. Also he just got out of jail fo hitting his wife and I dont know what he will do to me but I know how to fight. The way I look at it is like this, sure I will get my a kicked but I will hold my own. Im 5ft. 2in. Weigh180 lbs. Hes 6ft 2in tall, weigh 280lbs and used to be in the army

Answer #1

before I say anything you must know that GOD IS LOVE >>SATAN AND WE HUMANS ARE AT FAULT BECAUSE BAD THINGS HAPPEN>>>DON”T BLAME GOD HE LOVES YOU>>>TRUST IN MY WORDS AND TAKE A LEAP OF FAITH>>>GOD WILL NOT FAIL YOU…God sees all and he is just…don’t wait one more second…call the police in a moment when your uncle is not home, if that is right now stop reading and call the police…if he is there call the police from a safe place within your home(make sure that your uncle can’t hurt you or anyone else…get everyone in one room) and call the police and say that you want to talk to a detective…they will get one for you explain the situation…tell them you don’t know what your uncle might do…so you don’t want any loud police sirones going off in the neighborhood…TRUST GOD AND ALL WILL BE WELL. BLESSINGS

Answer #2

do what the person above me said. and I am here for you to.even though I havent been in your guys situation but I hope I never am. but YOU can stop it.

Answer #3

Ok, well you either need to gather courage and call the police, because that is the only way to stop it.. OR. you need to tell one of your uncles or aunts IMMIEDIATELY! you need to find someone you can trust… like a counselor at school, I’m sorry this is happening to you, but the best way to stop it is to let someone know.. and do something as soon as possbile. Good luck, and I wish you the best. :] funmail if you have any questions. It is better that your mom knows than not know at all..

Answer #4

Please take care of yourself.

Answer #5

You need to contact the police. What he is doing is wrong and illegal. You are not in a safe environment right now. You need to find someone you trust and stay with them for your own safety.

His best weapon is keeping you silent through fear.

Call 1-800-656-HOPE You can also speak to someone through the sexual assault online hotline here: http://apps.rainn.org/ohl-bridge/

If you need to talk, I’m here for you.

I’m also a survivor of childhood sexual abuse and rape. From when I was very small to age 19. YOU have the power to stop it! Speak out! Congratulations for being so brave!

xox Sika

Answer #6

you need to tell somebody. tell your Homeroom teacher. this is illegal. my mom’s boyfriend who lived with us pushed me up against a wall and nearly strangled me and punched me in the face and broke my nose when she wasn’t home and I called my best friend and told her and she told her mom and then her mom called the police. the police are always there and chances are if you tell your teacher then he/she will call CPS (child protective services) and this will all be over with. but, if he DOES try to beat you up, do what I did to Jason, punch him in his throat and kick his shin then run for dear life. if you need anything e-mail me at billiejoebabe13@live.com, I’ll listen.

Answer #7

I am sooo sorry. But you need to get help immediatly. Tell a teacher, tell someone. Please. If it happens again FIGHT! This is very serious and I feel your pain. God bless you. I wish the very best to you.

Answer #8

hey I been through it with my dad. And ya it is hard to tell you mom but go to school and talk to somebody about it and they will help you get the help you need. they can even go with you to your house to talk to your mom so try that out and see how that helps you ok. god bless you sweetie and good luck to u. never let any man hurt you cause no women desever to be hurt at all. remember that

Answer #9

Give a call to the police and everything should be stopped

Answer #10

Email is simple and is fast Me I was raped and have never been the same The monster was trialed but set free Video tapes were used as evidence Yes video tapes were unable to be used due to a “Placement error” I hate him and have plans to find him I Mean to say not a threat but like a desire It shouldn’t change your life try to get some counseling also first words weren’t meant to line up like that sorry.

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