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Should I confront him?

You know. I need help. I don’t know what to do anymore. The guy I liked. Hes gone. done. ya people you were right some of you. he changed his mind about everything. he used me. this is the 2nd time now this has happened to me. I don’t know what to do. im so down and upset about this. it took me so long to get over the first guy and I dont want to do that again. I need advice. I have not talked to him in a week cause I cant stand him. he doesnt talk to me either. I don’t know if its cause he feels bad or just was like o ya I screwed her and now were done. it hurts. im done. I don’t know if I should confront him. but im so angry and hurt. ugh advice please!!!1

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Answer #1

Confront him about what? It was YOUR decision to sleep with someone you werent in a relationship with. He didnt force you. If this is the 2nd time this has happened to you, then maybe you need to stop and take a good look at yourself. It seems you just arent getting it. If you dont want this to keep happening, then you have to start respecting yourself. Sex isnt going to make someone fall for you, and it wont make them commit to you. Its a simple as that. Dont use sex to get love, because you’ll end up being one lonely girl.

So many girls make the mistake of having sex with a boy who claims likes them, then thinks they have something going on, when that isnt the case. Then she gets mad at him, because he used her. Guys will use a girl, if a girl lets him. My advice to you is>if you really like a boy, and he says he likes you too, DONT HAVE SEX WITH HIM!! Let him get to know you socially, and mentally, NOT physically! Take things SLOW! Relationships take a long time to grow, and throwing sex in there only complicates everything!

Answer #2

girl DONT FEEL that WAY WERE YALL GN OUT OR DID you JUST LIKED?? WELL HEY YEA I know HOW IT FEELS I GONE TROUGH THEM THINGS and IM ONLY 15 YEARS OLD I HAD MA FIRST WHEN I was 8 BUT DIDNT REALLY know BOUT LOVE and NOW that IM ABOUT 2 B 16 I HAD MA BOII 4 3 YEARS DATS KOOL BUT you HAVE 2 FEEL that WAY IF you know you COULD FIND ANOTHER GUY EASILY IF you know your KIND KOOL and HAVE FEELINGS you WILL GET HIM BACK IF you TRY BUT JUST KEEP IT UP and DONT LET IT GO I was WAITING 4 DIZ NIKKA 4 2 YEARS I MOVED 2 ANOTHER school STILL WHIT HIS girl and SO I JUST DECIDED 2 GO ON BUT HEY DONT GIVE UP OK LOVE YALL TAKE CARE DONT FEEL that WAY

Answer #3

remember how he has made you feel. you have to remember that feeling. if you forget it, and he wants to get back together with you in the future, you just may end up geting hurt again. let this be the last time he hurts you. remember the pain and let him go.

you deserve better than this guy. loyalty is worth a lot.

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