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Should I confront him?

I was talking/dating this guy for 7 months, I stopped seeing him bc I got tired of his excuses. After 2 weeks later, I talked his female friend(turns out to be his girlfriend), and she told me that they have been dating on and off for bout 4years, he never told me that he had a girlfriend!!! He always said he was single.. I never told his girlfriend that was dating him at the same time…I was veryyy upsettt!!! Now they arent in a relationship, she moved on and found a new guy… Now he’s single!!

I live really close to him bout 15mins away, and its impossible not to run into him, I’ve been lucky that I havnt seen him, I’ve been ingoring him I guess. And its been 2 months since I havnt seen him.

My question is if I see him, what should I do??? Should I confront him?? Or just let it go and forget bout it???

I need help!!!

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Answer #1

Well that depends. Usually confronting someone isn’t going to change them, it will change how you feel about the situation with them. If you confront him is it going to give you some sort of closure, like “now he knows how I feel about the situation and I can move on” or is it just going to drag all those feelings you have worked hard to get over back to the surface. In the end, I think that what he did was lower than low and no girl deserves to feel like they are second to another and should be kept a secret, so if/when you see him and you think that confronting him will make you feel better then by all means go for it, but if it is going to make you feel like crap again, you don’t need to waste your time.

Answer #2

JUST LEAVE HIM ALONE IT ALL DEPENDS ON IF you WANT TO GET BACK WITH HIM.

Answer #3

JUST LEAVE HIM ALONE IT ALL DEPENDS ON IF you WANT TO GET BACK WITH HIM.

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