My friend is in love with someone 10 years older then her

I’m 17 and was going out with a guy who was 13 years older then me he was 31! He was sweet and could talk to him about anything and he showed me that he really cared about me! We did ended up having sex! The only problem was that he was married but had been seperated from his wife for a while now! he had been living next door where his parents live and thats how we met! our parents didn’t approve after they found out like a month or so of us going out! simply because he was older and I was still underage and the fact that he was marreid and he drank to much and that they suspected he used smokes {which he did and so did I}! well at the end {which was 3months ago} he went back to her as I knew he would and just last week his back here again because his wife kicked him out AGAIN! So I say it isn’t wrong.. BUT.. she really needs to be careful! I don’t know how mature your friend is and she needs not to believe every little sweet thing he says and tell her if he wants to do something thats shes not confortable with don’t do it! I was actually lucky that I had know his parents since I was small and my mom knew them all as well so if anything bad happened they all would know about it! just tell your friend to really be careful! guys aren’t really what they’ve seem!

Dating should be okay but you should tell her parents. Her parents have the right to know. If she told you not to tell anyone then there is something that she is hiding. But as soon as they decide to have sex when she isn’t 18 yet, you are her friend and friends don’t let there friends do something that dumb, no offense. You should know that it is legal and the law will take him away from her.