Grandparents rights ?

Well, first of all - why would you want to deprive your children of the right of knowing their grandparents?

If the grandparents are truly bad people, then you can deny them access in court..however, if it’s just a tiff you have with your parents then my suggestion is to get over yourself - it’s not all about you and you shouldn’t be bringing your children into your battle.

A grandmother who spoils the children…what a surprise.

Your mother raised you, now it’s her privilege to spoil her grandchildren…it won’t ruin your kids - trust me, my mother spoiled all 3 of my kids. You’re being very selfish. To deny a grandmother of her granchildren and vice versa just because you don’t want them to be loved (grandparents show affection by doting on their grandchildren).

And another thing: “I want my child to be as perfect as I can possibly make them be”

Good luck with that…you can raise them to be the image of perfect all you want, but they grow up all on their own and all you’ll end up with is disappointment…and resentment from those kids who you denied a right to their grandmother.

they will be fine it’s better they don’t see her then they do I don’t want them to be f*cked up mentally

Actually amblessed I am thinking about my child if you would read my last question you would understand why

read my last question and you wont be saying that my mother is irresponsible neglectful has field my life with so much hate and speaks totally incorrect and I know my kid’s can’t be perfect but they can be as perfect as I can possibly make them I want them to be successful and happy and have every thing I haven’t / didn’t I want them to be able to do w,e they want in life and be good at it

I dont blame you!!! although you want your mother no where near your kids how about you talk to your mom and tell her what on your mind. my mom thought the same too. so why grandma doesnt spoil me but I feel kind of left out when all my friends brag about what their grandmas buy them and do for them. I just dont feel like a granddaughter. and then to top it I am like the oldest out of 7 granddaughters and the only one that doesnt get spoiled. whenever I see my grandma spoil them I feel left out or have to leave the room so that they all dont have to see my cry becuase I feel like and outsider. so I think that you should think about that twice!!!

Very, very, selfish of you - you’re thinking only of ‘me, me, me’ in this situation.

it’s not just a tiff I want my child to be as perfect as I can possibly make them be and I want my mother to have nothing to do with my kid’s I don’t mind if my father want’s to see them but my mother no way she will spoil them just like she does every one Else’s kid’s and she wont do what I want to be done with my kid’s and I would rather not have kid’s who will come home and be disobedient it’s for there safety and well being and I just hate my mom shes a bad mother which you will see if you read the other question I asked