Apostolics answer please, other types of christians can answer also

Awesome Answer… Grandma Cee Cee…

rlhtsvm - I am a Christian, and I agree totally with what free2 said. I am going to invite another young Christian girl to come and give her testimony, on this post.

She has just been taken for a ride, by a young man exactly like the one you are describing.

He left her high and dry, with a child. Her father is a preacher. Do you see the irony of this?? Satan killed two birds with one stone, by knocking her off of her perch of purity, and bringing her down to his level, and also, of trying to interrupt the flow of the gospel, by bringing heartache to her father, so that it would interfere with his preaching.

Well… Praise God… prayer stopped him. He made inroads, but, he was not allowed to destroy.

Another young girl, turns up… he sold her the same bill of goods, she too, is carrying his baby.

Now, he has brought down two young virgins. Leaving them both high and dry, with a child. While they are yet, children, themselves.

Now, we have two more children in this world that are going to have to grow up with fathers.

Who is winning? God or the devil?

She is making her choices.. now… and we have to live with what we choose.

We are taught to make good decisions…

Now, tell me, is she making a good choice???

Pain and heartache, are behind her, and in front of her.

And for the family too, as they hurt, when one of their own hurts.

If you can pray and fast, and get this broken off, you will be doing your sister a great favor.

Here are some prayer links, where you can post requests, as often as you like.

Godswork.org

dailyguidepost.org

wjcr.org (click on prayer)

God be with you.

OMG, why do you people live like this? If there was a god, why would he want you to live in fear of sex? If they have been talking for a year, and they really care about each, why in the wolrd would it be wrong for them to show that love to each other.

Absolutely pathetic…

I’m not apastolic, but I am a Christian. Have you tried talking to her? What has she said to you? I know the best answer for this kind of thing is prayer. Another question, has he really straitened his act up, or is he just making it look that way?

You can also tell her to look up these verses: Hebrews 13:4 1 Thess 4:3-4 Mark 7:20-22 1 Cor 6:19-20 2 Tim 2:21

or you can write them on index cards and leave them in strategic places if you don’t feel comfortable talking to her yourself. I would encourage her to be honest with your parents. She is after all an adult.

Also, as a side note: Marrying someone much older than you isn’t bad, but she needs to understand the consequences of having kids that age as step children and be prepared for it if she does want to get married. If your looking for more info you can fun mail me. I have been there.

I keep waiting for the “what would jesus do” thing that you talk about to kick in for some of you guys but all I ever read is condemnation, judgement and eternal hellfire.

and you wonder why people don’t want to be preached “at” or listen to you witness.

heaven forbid that someone meets an “older” man with two children, talks to him for a year, kisses him once…