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Should I have a threesome?

okay..my boyfriend and i have been dating for three years and i’ve done him more then once, now he wants to “spice” up our s*x lives, he wants to bring in his bi next door nieghbor, i would have no problem with that, but his next door nieghbor is a girl, and i’ll admit i have been thinking about dating a girl, but, i dont know. so please help, should i say yes, or should i say no..

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Answer #1

I think there is nothing wrong with bringing a third person into your relationship, but only if all three of you are 100% comfortable with the idea. The fact that you’re unsure and posting here for opinions makes me think it is not a good idea for you right now. Maybe in the future, but not just yet. Many relationships fail when a third person is brought in and someone is not 100% comfortable with the idea.

Answer #2

Dear bananagirl92, Do some reading on the subject. You will find that when you bring another person into the relationship this way it will more likely doom the relationship. There is a lot lacking in the relationship if he’s thought of this option. You both need some counselling to get this back on track. Fantasies such as this are only meant to be imagined when they are pursued they signal trouble. Sue..good luck

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