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Why is this heartbreak hurting so much?

Well for them who have read my first question I posted, things have changed now. I’m 17 and trying to get over him or cutting him off is so hard. Trying to focus on something else is impossible, I mean I don’t exactly have a great circle of friends you see in movies and my siblings are not around much to talk to. I have relied on him so much and I care for him a lot, and to think to cut someone off is so hard. This is my first proper relationship, and I can’t see pass him. I’m hurting so much, I may be young but I have honestly fallen in love. The problem is I know well we both know it’s not working and if it is we are both using each other emotionally. I haven’t had sex with him for at least 5 to 6 months, maybe I’m fat eh. I don’t know who he is anymore, and I know in my head I need to cut him off completely, but it’s so hard. All I have done for the pass 3 -4 months is cry cry cry. We connected on so many levels and now, I feel like someone has jab and large knife through me and I just want this pain to stop. Can anyone give me so honest constructive advice?

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Answer #1

I am sorry that’s been so hard. I had a very hard breakup but now I am in a very good relationship, way better than the one I was heart broken for. I don’t know if you are religious or not, but I remember during that time this book called “ Trusting God even when life hurts” by “Jerry Bridges” saved my life. I was so broken and I couldnt do anything and I wished I could numb the pain.

Maybe you can try the book out. I am sorry I don’t have more neutral advice for you, but that was honestly my life saver.

Answer #2

I’m really sorry things didn’t work out for you :( I know how you feel , I just lost my first love :( but remember this : there is a soulmate for everyone , one day , you’ll find your soulmate and feel really happy and loved :)

Answer #3

keep thinking if its meant to be it will happen, and try to do other thing to get him out of your head

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