When he went in it hurt me so much

Some one give me some advice please the other day I went to have sex with my boyfriend and I was all ready but when he went in it hurt me so much so he went to finger me to loosen me up but I was bleeding I got embarrsed and walked out should I have done that ?

Answer #1

It sounds like you weren’t ready at all. Maybe you shosuldn’t of walked out because that is what naturally happens, depending on the women. Just go back to him and tell him that you got embarassed and you should try again if your ready. You should just let him finger you but except blood the second time also. I would suggest the shower so you don’t have to clean it up after wards. This is a natural thing and you have to be comfortable with what your doing.

Answer #2

if you are not ready or if you dont want to dont do it , if you go ahead again take it gentle & use plenty of lub. good luck toni

Answer #3

just go back to him & tell him your sorry about the other day & that you got freaked out & embarrsed & left.

yeah maybe you shouldn’t have walked out, but I understand.

maybe your just not ready. but if your willing to ask him to do it again it always feels better the second time,

make sure your wet as, it helps. & make sure he goes slow

take care. xx

Answer #4

No, but then again you shouldn’t have been having sex with him in the first place. You obviously we not ready. Good job.

Answer #5

is his penis pierced or somthing?

Answer #6

u ushudnt have… you probly wrent wet enough that happen to me before bt I dint walk away… bad idea

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