Why dosent she let me do this?

I asked my girl friend if I can finger her and ahe says why thats gross and she also has never fingered her self well me and her have talked about sex but I tell her I dont want to have sex with her yet and im willing to 4 play and I told her sex is worse then fingering and so is makeing out so any advise

Answer #1

thanx for the anwser the only thing we have done is make out and the only other thing she will do is sex and I dont want to do that

Answer #2

well 1st off dont ask. just slowly get her in the mood by kissing and fondeling til she’s rageing with horemoans and then you work your way down there. you just have to make sure she’s in the right mood and she should let u. other then that I don’t know whut else to say

Answer #3

If she says that it’s gross, it could be that she just doesn’t like the idea of it? You could talk about oral, but if she won’t have it, then you have to respect that and wait until she’s ready.

You guys are young - there’s no need to rush any of this.

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