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Why am I so insecure?

I look at myself & I’m just like ew I’m so ugly.. and when I see some other girl that’s sooo pretty I’m always staring at her and just wanting what she has.. you know?

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Answer #1

your not the only one girl, there is always some one out there that has it worse then you so value your physique and only pay attention to the good things about you. Value what you have as a person and that for sure will bring up your confidence.

Answer #2

I real do mean it. I just click on your pic and I have to say you look amazing.just stop thinking your ugly..becasue your not..your beautiful young women

Answer #3

if I may say ..as a guy..wow you look amazing..

Answer #4

I feel exactly the same way… but with almost every girl I see… I feel like ther all better than me… I wish I wer anyone but me

Answer #5

A lot of people feel like that, especially teenage girls. However,nothing you do right now will probably make you feel better.I would have to agree with c4j911. That did help me a lot, but that doesn’t mean you should go out and start having sex. What c4j911 said is also something that leads to promiscuity in teenage girls. The sense of beauty they get when they have sex. Just wait it out and as you will get older you will feel better even though some people feel worse at first.

Answer #6

Honey…you have NO reason to be insecure! You are beautiful!!! I would love to look like you!

Seriously. If anything…all the girls you see staring at you are doing so because you make THEM insecure.

Be secure in who you are. Not how you look. Be strong and smart and fun to be around. Care about others more than you care about yourself and then you wont have to worry about being insecure.

Answer #7

pft.. no offence to ‘hysterical’ but I know for a fact that what she says doesnt work.. I used to get told that all the time.. and the only reason Im more comfortable with my body now is being naked infront a few chicks regularly.. honestly having a lover look at you with an expression of desire has no comparison to some bullshit self-help thing.. Im not encouraging sexual behaviour but in my experience it was the only thing that changed my perception of myself.. or you get so stressed that you give up on caring.. either way isnt great but try not to dwell on appearance.. real pretty girls are usually bad people..