What will happen between us?

Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and two months now. We’ve always spent hours together and always been happy around each other. But now with school starting again I barely see him. I’m always asking him to do things even if it’s just for an hour or two but he always comes up with the same excuses, “I’m hanging out with my friends today.” He’s always leaving me for them. Like he’ll come to my house and be like I can’t stay long I’m meeting so and so soon. It’s like he can’t say “no, I’m hanging out with my girlfriend today.” He’s always ditching me for them. I’m always making time to be around him so why can’t he do the same. It’s like he doesn’t even want to be around me anymore. We use to be crazy for each other. I love him so much and he tells me he does too. But I don’t think he means it anymore. One of his friends’ girlfriend has been my best friend for 7 years and her boyfriend is always taking her along with them to hang out . But my boyfriend won’t take me anywhere with them. Being around him would always make me happy and put me in a good mood, but now that I never see him people keep asking me if I’m okay and that I always look like I’m about to cry. Every night I start worrying that he’ll break up with me and so yeah, I do cry. I cry every time I think about it. Should I be worried? I really can’t lose him. What should I do?

Answer #1

i’m a guy and i hang with my friends and i make time with my girl and you just need to tell him that you are starting to worry about your realationship me and my girl have not known eachother for very long she’s shy and she never talks to me but i’m really sure that it’s because she’s shy, and it may sound wierd but since we have’nt known eachother for very long i’m a very scary person and since she’s shy she may be afraid of me but just talk to him. let me tell you something me and my girl have had some issues that i’m about to sort out like she’s talking to other boy and not to me so i’m worrying bbut i love her so much that i was going to go on a roof and call her up and ask her for some answers and if i felt she was lying to me i was going to threaten juming off even though i knew it would mess up our realationshiip but i did’nt i’m just going to talk to her about it, also she says she’s not aloud to date till tenth grade but i’m wanting to wait i just need to know about some things so just sort out the issues with your boyfriend and at somewhere no one can hear you.

Answer #2

But how do I ask him? I don’t want us to argue about it and make it seem like I’m pissed at him about it because I’m not, I’m just worried because I don’t understand why he barely wants to hang out with me. I mean I’m PRETTY sure he doesn’t want to break up. Maybe he’s just bored … IDK.

Answer #3

You HAVE TO tell him how you feel about, but in a nice way, and stop being so afraid that he would dump you. Because fear is the path to the dark side… ;)

Answer #4

Sorry to say, but it sounds like your relationship is slowing fading! When things aren’t as good in the relationship now as they were in the beginning, its not a good sign. Its perfectly healthy for couples to want to hang out with their own friends, but when it starts becoming an everyday occurrence, then somethings going on! If i were you, i would talk to him about your concerns. Hopefully he gives you total honesty! Good Luck!

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