What should I do about my strict parents who ruin my relationship?

my parents are very VERY stict on me like I can’t go out (I really hope I can change the way they are)…so me and my ex boyfriend have been on and off for 1 year but he keeps breaking up with me b/c I cant go out and when we get back together he says that he don’t care if I can go out or not.. and right now he wants to get back with me but im sure that this is going to happen again.. I know, I know I shouldnt get back with him but I love him its like I never felt the way I feel when im with him.. I really don’t want me and him to be over! but I just don’t know what to do!!

Answer #1

First of all how old are you? And Regardless of your age you do need to respect your parents though..but the legal age of consent is 16 and so if you are 16 or over I personally think that you should be allowed to date. You need to work this out with your parents though and they are only strict because they love and care about you.

As for your ex boy friend Girl you deserve better then him his reason for breaking up with you is well no offense but f-ed up… He should be there for you regardless of if you can go out or not. Your relationship I think should be based on a lot more then that or sorry to say but it will not work out..I am older then you I think I am 17 soon to be 18. so I might have a few more years exspirence but when it comes to men girl you need a man not a boy…his reason for breaking up with you is very childish and immature my suggestion to you is to share what I am saying with him and to no t take him back unless and until you see some changes.

I can understand him wanting to go out with you and to places with you but if you can not do that because your parents say so well until you are 18 years old you will have to respect that and he needs to know and understand that too..also that it is not your fault or choice..and there fore he should not break up with you over something you have little to know control over.

And you know what he is not your husband sweetie and so he has no power or authorities over you I am not to sure why but I am getting a control vibe from your thing don’t let a guy control you. Also when choosing a spouse for the future be picky and choose wisely.

Good Luck to you. God Bless

Answer #2

its hard but i think you need to sit and talk to your parents. but depending on your age, if you are over 16 or if you are 16 you should be able to go out and date. you really need to talk to your parents and let them know how you feel and try to set some boundaries for you. i hope i helped.

Answer #3

You should sit down with your boyfriend and your parents to talk. Make your parents understand what you want.

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