What should I use to break my hymen?

I remember when I was in the hospital the lady was talking about her granddaughter actually had to have surgery because her hymen was so thick nothing would break it. The surgery didn’t get done till it came time for her having children.

Go to the doctor. If something is wrong than you should go get it checked out.

Your hymen is located at the very opening of your vagina (it circles the very opening; and usually has a small opening in the middle to release menstrual blood) It looks like a white thin mucous-like membrane. If you want to break your hymen to avoid first time intercourse pain, you’ll still experience pain and discomfort the first time anyways because your vagina is being introduced to a foriegn object and a virgin’s vagina is especially sensitive; sure breaking your hymen will make it hurt less but not much ‘cause that’s not what causes the real pain. Also, using lubricants during your first time helps A LOT (and also a glass of wine to loosen up a bit and not be so nervous) Very rarely is the hymen unbreakable; an unbreakable hymen is called an elastic hymen.