What do I do when my boyfriend fingers me for the first time!?

Most likely he wouldnt pop you cherry, mine was poped from sex so.

it could help if you do it by yourself first

what is a hymen/cherry? Your hymen is a small thin or thick layer of skin inside your vagina your hymen and cherry is the same thing people call the hymen your “cherry” but there both the exact same thing it doesn’t really have anything to do with your virginity its not fully attached to your vagina either allowing period blood to leak through and semen to go in if you have sex some girls are born without a hymen and it also gets broken by things like masturbating, fingers, sex toys, tampons, horse riding, bicycle riding, aggressive sports and exercise so your hymen can be broken long before you have sex for the first time

so if you still have your hymen it might hurt a bit when he fingers you but it might not, as every girl is dfferent as for fingering you could moan a little or play with a part of your body either way only do what your comfortable with and make sure your relaxed and actually ready before you go through with it

also remember to LEARN about sex before you go off having it or start getting sexually active learn about as well as a male and female reproductive system birth control, contraception, pregnancy and sti/stds don’t have sex until you know the consequences involved with it because the main reason why kids and teens get pregnant and get stds is because of a lack of sex education

well as long as your confortable with it and you both love each other just let him .. sometimes it might hurt, but its different for everyone.. some enjoy it some dont, your age doesnt really matter.. but make sure if it does hurt yoy tell him ! its also better to do it yourself first. oh and how old are you ?