what do I do if my ex girlfriend is pregnant and im not ready?

my ex girlfriend is pregnant with my child and im not ready for this.and the worst of all is that she already got 3 children and I got none.she’s 23 and im 19.what do I do???

Answer #1

it’s too late for a lecture, I know, I just hope you learnt your lesson.

However, I am asking you- I know you are not ready and that you’re scared, but if there is one thing you do, please make sure you help with the child financally. Support the child. and do go see the baby. that baby is a part of you… and whether you are ready or not, when you look into their eyes for the first time, the feeling you get will be indescribable.

Answer #2

Well… you know what you did at first whit her, why did you get her pregnet when you knew you were not ready for this. I mean meaby she does want to have it and you as a good dad should just take responsibilities.

You have to be strong, the chield is not the fault of all this, meaby she does have it, does she need your sopport? Meaby all it will take is just visiting the kid and having him know his/ her dad and all.

Talk to her and have some options laid out. Meaby on this adoption might be the best thing to do, meaby if you guys could make a plan and all.

GOOD LUCK:)

Answer #3

let her have it! clearly she’s not worth it if she’s had 3 kids with OTHERS. She’s worthless! she’s sleeping around and you shouldn’t have sex with someone you aren’t married to!!!

Answer #4

well shes 6 months already.I cant sleep at night.I lay awake wondering what to do but cant get to a solution.I still love her and all but she got too much responsability

Answer #5

hit it quit it lolz na just tell her how you feel dude but that is all on you if you want to take that responsibility on

Answer #6

talk to her about it. talk about adoption. an open adoption so that way you can see the baby when your ready

Answer #7

TELL HER YU ARE NOT READY! PLAiN AND SiMPLE THATS YUR LiFE.. DONT BRiNG A BABY HERE AND YOU ARE NOT READY FOR HiM OR HER!

Answer #8

sure but its too late for that now and she told her parents already but mine dont know

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