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I want a kid with him he said not yet

My fiance has a two year old son I want a kid with him he said not yet how can I get him to change his mind I love him and really want one wit him.

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Answer #1

you cant really change someones mind on a situation like this, you have to let them work it out in there own time, hes not tottaly saying no hes just saying not now. so dont worry just have patientce

Answer #2

I dont know when your getting married congratulations :] but youu probably wouldnt wanna have a big bump in yourr wedding dress. id say get marriedd first then see howw it goes :]

Answer #3

try babysitting for a friend who has a very young baby for a whole day or two. You will very quickly realize how difficult all the work is and how tiring it is. Plus it will let you care for a child for a little bit which it sounds like you really want to do.

I used to nanny for a set of 2 year old twins and believe me, after a whole day of work I would come home exhausted not ever wanting a kid anytime soon.

Answer #4

thanks all of you… any tips on how I can stop thinking about wanting one for a while?

Answer #5

There isn’t really any sort of answer that can be given. You ended your post in a very “case closed” manner.

Answer #6

get married first, then theres a better chance he’ll say yes and a better chance of him not leaving you knocked up.

Answer #7

Yeah, you realize that your wants are not important when it comes to having a baby, because when you have a baby you want to give it the best possible life, which means you need to be in a steady job with a partner who wants kids and is ready for them, so you can give the child the best possible chance…

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