Uncles funeral

Was my uncles funeral today and when I walked into the church with my family it felt asif I was choking on a lump in my frote :( and all I wanted to do was cry ! But I held it in, until he was burried and I had to through pettles onto his coffin :(:( I just burst into tears!!! I wanted to be strong and comfort my family but it was just to horrible, and now all I feel like doing is crying :( I miss him loads!!! What did you feel like after a loved one died? X

Answer #1

crying is healthy and it shows your love for him grief is a long process but it is a good one in the end good luck and sorry for your loss :)

Answer #2

I still cry everytime someone talks about my Grandfather. He practically raised me when I was younger and was the sweetest man you could have ever met. When he died, I lost it. I was so mad, upset, hurt, depressed, and emotional. I still have moments where I cry for him. It’s normal to be upset. It’s normal to miss them. You just go on with your life and remember all of the good times when you think about them. Grief takes time - you can’t rush it.

Answer #3

Be thankful you had such a great person in your life - you did just fine, people react differently - I know you’ll treasure the good memories and the help through tough times - really helps me to lean on my faith…you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

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