my family takes me for granted how do I handle this?

my family effing treats me like sh*t && takes me for granted like a mother effer like I babysit like almost EVERYDAY and I clean the house && people are allowed to just walk in my room whenever they want TAKE MY EFFING PHONE!? && they freaking keep me up till like11 on school nights walking in and out of my room,

how the h3ll am I supposed to handle this!?

Answer #1
  • explain to your parents that you don’t appreciate it when they enter your room without knocking and disrespect you.
    DO THIS TENDERLY.
    DO THIS CALMLY. DO THIS AT A GOOD TIME. LISTEN TO THEIR SIDE OF THE STORY. DO NOT YELL. DO NOT CHANGE SUBJECTS. AVOID USING WORDS LIKE “always” & “never”
Answer #2

you should try t tell them how you feel about this. like seriously, 11?? if they want you to get good grades, they should lay off some chores and babysitting and walking in your room… thank GOD I have a lock on my door.

Good Luck! xoxo

Caitlyn

Answer #3

man homey ma sista be doin that I hate it. just slapp em. but if its your mom be like mama I do everything and all you do is nothin cant I just at least have ma own room

Answer #4

You should tell someone about this. If your parents are neglecting in caring for you, they could get into serious trouble. If your parents won’t listen to how you feel, you should have a talk with a school counsellor or another relative you can turn to. Believe me, you shouldn’t have to go through this alone. You’ve tried your best to cope with the way things are and your family seems to be bringing you down again. You need to speak out to make this change for the better. It sounds as though this may be putting you through large amounts of stress and a bit of depression. If this is the case you should probably make an appointment to talk to a doctor about all your worries and stress. I hope you get the help you need.

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