Throw daughter out?

well im a 19 year old and im not like everyone else. but heres my advice. you are her parent. you need to put your foot down. yes she is of age but she is also livin under your roof which means you still have control of her. instead of throwin her out give her an option of what she wants. give her the option of dumpin his trashy butt or she can hit the road. then if she decides to leave thats her for it. maybe she just needs an rude awakenin

If anything, don’t throw her out. I know I’m only fourteen, and I completely understand if you don’t take this advice because of my age, but I’ve seen the same situation. Yes, she made the choice to see the guy, but you have to make sure she knows you’re there for her. If you kick her out, and she realizes this guy isn’t the best decision she’s ever made, she won’t have anywhere to go. And to me, and probably many other people, making your child feel neglected is worse than having to deal with her boyfriend. She’s nineteen. If she wants to date him, let her. But if he’s causing harm, tell her she has to make the choice for what’s best for her.

It sounds like you really care for you daughter and just want to do the best by her. But at this time, she needs you more then ever, even if she wont ask for the help. Frowing her out of your home will leave her homeless and I know you dont want that. She is then going to move in with her boyfriend. She then has more of an oppotunity to do the things you and she know she shouldnt be doing. All you can do at this moment is get in contact with the police and try and look after your saughter as much as you can.. but frowing her out will help with your family home… but will make a member of your family enter a rolercoaster of selfdistruction.

I’m 16 and I have seen this happen to my older brother.

you need to kick her out, let her hit rock bottom. then when she comes crying back to you, take her back into the house and show her that you still love her. OR you can give her a few hundred dollars and send her on her merry way.