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The family stops me having a boyfriend

My family is mainly mean males that tease their sisters and daughters

Well anyway I really want a boyfriend but if I gogt one my dad wouldnt look at me in the same way my brothers would tease me my mum would automatically start talking to me a bout sex and this would be within the first week its so bad worse than the average family I cant hide it because my twin sister would tell so easily I’d be happy if she got a boyfriend first and before you give the sit down and talk to them advice it wont work

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You have to honor & respect your parents. I know that kind of sucks to hear that, but they’re raising you and you have to respect what they say you can or cannot do. Well, on a personal basis, about a year ago I really wanted a boyfriend and this guy happened to ask me out. So I went out with him behind my parents’ back… It blew up in my face for a few reasons… 1) Having a boyfriend wasn’t at all how I would have expected/wanted it to be. 2) The guy liked me much more than I liked him & he said ‘I love you’ which was not what I expected/wanted to be either, & it kind of scared me. :/ 3) I had the guilt of hiding it from my parents… So I broke up with the guy, and I was SO much happier being single & not lying to my parents. Now a year later, I’m still happy being single and have a much better relationship with my parents. I’ve also realized that childhood years go by fast and they never come back, so I’d rather spend them with friends and having people decide for me rather than using them up in relationships which we have plenty of time for later in life. & we have plenty of time for independence, too. :]

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