How do I deal or talk to my 14 year old boy?

How do I deal or talk to my 14 year old boy? He always seems angry and upset. He’s always getting in trouble at school because he doen’t like school. He doesn’t get along with one of his teachers and finds school boring in general. We try to keep him motivated but it can be difficult and emotionally draining at times.

HELP!

Answer #1

If needed take him to counseling to help him with his anger and adjusting - a parent must take charge…Take care !!

Answer #2

I am 14 years old and I have a 14 year old boyfriend he has anger issues a lot with he’s parents they just left him alone and he started talking to them more and more. Plus you have eto ask your self a qustion to are you driven him away by asking to many qustions?

Answer #3

Hi, I see many “always” in your email and I feel implication that something is wrong with your son. While this could be the case try not to use word “always” when talking to him about his problems. OK, if school is boring, etc. - what on earth is likes to do? Sport? Fishing? Drawing? Anything at all? Try to get involved in what he likes.. How close are you? Be frank with the kid but not push for agenda. He will open up with time.

IT would really help if you talk more about your son’s personality and your relationships..

Answer #4

im 15 years old, I hate school all it is, is drama, thats no problem and if he has anger issues maybe counciling but not liking that place isnt a problem, most kids dont. I sleep in all my classes. the problems with the teacher, he just has the wrong teacher, I have had that, problem with getting in toruble in school maybe hes just trying to show the school that there ridiculous with some of there rules, atleast my school is dumb like that.

Answer #5

typical teenager. my sisters like that too, shes slowly coming out of it. shes 17 now.

Answer #6

IF YOU TRY EVERYTHING AND HE DOESN’T WANT TE GET HIS ACT TOGETHER THEN YOU NEED TO PRACTICE TUFF LOVE AND THAT IS BOOTCAMP!

Answer #7

you should just give him his space! I hate when my parents are always asking questions and try to talk about things. you may be pushing him farther away like shaynaann159 said. but for school ask him what would make it better. but give him his space. I hope I helped

Jay <3

Answer #8

ship him off to the naval academy

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