So my girlfriend got a massage from a college senior

Okay, to start off, I know massaging is a perfectly respectable business, and a lot of things don’t happen during it, but the thought of my girlfriend being naked and rubbed down by a college senior scares me. We’ve been going out for about 13 months now, and I trust her completely, but I still can’t get over this. I have trust issues, and I do not trust whoever is massaging her, because it is not hard for a college senior to do anything he wants to a vulnerable, naked 15 year old girl who he is already touching. I thought the touching would be something she and I could share, something only we could do together, but now that I know she’s gotten massages, I’ve lost that sense of love and the special moments we have together when we do. I’m very over-protective of her, to the point where I think I irritate her sometimes, because I’m so worrisome of little things she does. And I need more than people telling me to just get over it when it comes to this, because it is a lot easier said than done. She means so much to me and I don’t want any harm or abuse to come to her, I just want her to be safe. Is there anything I can do to get over the fact that I get extremely scared when my girlfriend is naked and rubbed by another guy? Please, I need help…

Answer #1

tell her if she wants a massage to come to u.. then give her the best damn massage of her life

Answer #2

haha thats some pretty funny advice livelovelaugh123…but I would feel the same way lilkristi..I know what you mean by the special moments and stuff…maybe tell her what youre telling us because when you say it like that..its really understandable and maybe she will get it and do something..you said youre over protective which cant help here but maybe you should admit that to her and apologize for it…then talk to her about whats going on…that would defffinitly bother me the same way…so um..just try that…I hope I helped…

Answer #3

she couldve, but she chose to keep just her underwear on

Answer #4

I do too. But I am still confused as to why she was naked? Why couldn’t she wear clothes?

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