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Should I let go of this relationship??

Me an my girlfriend have a child an one on the way…our relationship hasn’t been the best we’ve been together for bout 3yrs we currently live together but we argue a lot an most of the time its about pointless things. I feel like she loves me but then again she tells me she tired of the argueing ( I am to) but I love this girl an she loves me cause whenever we break up we alwys get back with eachother cause we so use to being around one another…

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Answer #1

me and my wife went through all that last year for a couple of years. having children is hard and makes you lose sight of whats important. we sat down and promsied not to take each other for granted. we have been together for 7/8 years and we coulodnt be more in love. you both have to make the effort not just on. arguing is normal but not all the time. plus its not fiar on your littl one.

Answer #2

It is normal for a couple to argue- and its almost better to argue about the pointless stuff rather than ‘why did you sleep with my brother’ or ‘why did you beat the heck out of me’ - if you are arguing about dumb things- is there a common denominator for them? Is it due to financial stress, being around each other too much/not enough? stress of the pregnancy- take these into consideration and try to address him. If you both work together- you can improve the relationship- but it is up to the both of you. This may sound lame, but try ‘men are from mars, women are from venus’ - they have them on tape, or book form. Its a great way to offer insight to your mate’s needs. I learned so much. You all could try couples counseling as well- if it comes down to it. Considering both of you want to be together and you have kids- it is worth any and all efforts to make it work. Be teamates instead of opponents. Good luck!

Answer #3

It just means that you’re past the goo-goo eyes stage. Most couples argue a lot. Some say it shows that they care about each other. Arguments are merely the results of when two differing opinions clash.

Answer #4

I agree with wtfisasidney, only if you think it is best

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