Should I leave home for this?

Well basically I got back together with my ex and my parents cant stand the idea of that so they tell me I am not to leave home except for school and I dont think thats fair … So I was given the option of staying with a good friend for a while and I was wondering if I should (btw Im 17)

Answer #1

you can’t move out of your parents house unless your emanicipated, or legally an adult (18), if you were to move to your friends house, you may cause more problems than there already are..honestly I’ve been in the same situation as you.. I recently turned 16 when I dated my ex boyfriend who was 18.. and he was pretty much a bum.. he hungout with his friends, ands thats all he ever did.. but I was “madly in love with him” my mom told me I wasnt allowed to see him anymore.. that just made me want to see him more, I decided to cut class to see him, it became classes, I started cutting school in no less than 2 months I was already in danger of failing the year.. my moom found out and I wasnt trusted anymore and she threatened his parents and him with getting the cops involved.. I wasnt allowed to do anything without someone hovering over me, and I decided to go live with him, that night I planned to sneak out.. I decided to not do it, I waited acouple of months for everything to cool off and slowly I was gaining her trust, and I texted him and I realized who he really was.. whom I was “in love with” I am 18, and I dont regret anything, because my mom whom I used to see as my enemy, has becomemy best friend, now my point is yoou have to ask yourself is he really worth it ? What are the reasons my parents disapprove of him ? you have to think, and see whats going on, your parents only want whats right for you.. even though they may seem like buttfacess now in the long road your going to thank them for eveything they’ve done..

Answer #2

Well yeah it’s alright and they gave you that option so it’s alright.

Is just that don’t give everything up for a boy who can latter change his mind.

Answer #3

im 17 and I live with my boyfriend and I love it :) you should try movin out lol

Answer #4

that might be a good idea mabye till your parents cool down

Answer #5

Technically, you can’t move out of your parent’s home when you’re 17 unless you’ve been legally emancipated. Talk to your parents. Make them understand that it’s time to start practicing living your own life, making your own choices. Yeah, you’ll make mistakes, but that’s the whole point of learning to live on your own. They’ll probably feel a lot better knowing you understand that. They are probably trying to keep you from making mistakes and getting hurt, and they need to hear that you aren’t afraid of either, and that you’ll learn from that. Good Luck :]

Answer #6

In all honestly if you moved out that could really affect your relationship with your family… I don’t personally know your family maybe they don’t hold grudges maybe they do but is this really worth losing your blood over.. Why don’t you try telling them in a calm matter why your back with this girl give them a reason to trust your heart cause obviously she’s worth considering moving out for.. Why don’t they like her did she do something to offend them or hurt you in someway?

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