Should I let my past control me?

It is possible to put whatever happened to you aside. You can never forget it completely, but if you try you can learn to live with it. I have experience in that area, and yes, I am living with now –you can do it. its hard, but you can definitely do it.

good luck, best, Neoz

You shouldn’t let the past keep you down… I think by me saying that im a little hypicritical cause I let my past get me down but I’ve been working on that and you should too. What happened happened you can’t change what happened so you have to learn to accept it I agree with what is being said… learn from your experiences I know I have… and Good luck~!!

When I was 15 I was in love with a guy who beat me…over and over and over… Well I turned up pregnant, he didn’t really like this so he decided he would get rid of the baby for me. He did, by punching and kicking my stomach. I had a miscarriage at the age of 15.

I live with this everyday. I look at my other children and remember the one I could never have. This is something that I have learned to live with. I will NEVER FORGET IT. BUT I CAN DEAL WITH IT. You can to, you just have to move forward and realize that it’s in the past.

Good luck and best wishes

If you let your past control you then you are going to have one crappy future.

I don’t know what happened to you but if it’s over…its over. Go on with your life and try your best to forget about it.

When I was 18 my sisters husband raped me. I never told anyone until after they got divorced 12 years later!

I went on and forgot about it. Go forward, not backwards. Don’t hang out in the past, it will do nothing for you.

IF YOU CAN LET IT GO..IT WILL DESTROY YOUR WHOLE LIFE..I KNOW ITS HARD BUT TRY TO MOVE ON .~~.MAKE SOME GOOD MEMORIES NOW ..

ya let it goo chill have fun k