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I have been with my girlfriend for 2.5 years we are engaged. Sex is good when it happens. I would like to have more sex but we ussually go 2-3 weeks without. I try to start her fire and she just tells me no and that I am too horny. Most of the couples I know do it 2-5 times a weekend and we only do it maybe once a weekend. Is there anything that I can do. Or does this happen to most girls. Please Help!!!!

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Answer #1

I can say that “most girls” are not like that. At least I’m not. I have the exact opposite situation with my boyfriend. He doesn’t like to have sex often and we also go about 2 weeks without. It drives me NUTS!

Sometimes women have inhibitions. Society teaches us that sex is wrong and women should avoid it and if they engage in it often they are a slut. So maybe she just needs to get over that. She also may never had been “pleasured”. Meaning she hasn’t really explored herself sexually (masturbating) which is really important to know what feels good and how to relay it to your partner( and how to “let loose” ). Here is a good site that explores everything about women sexuallity. http://www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/fr_index.htm
The link for “Desire” off to the left side of the page might help you understand why she might not be into sex as much.

Now can someone answer why a man wouldn’t want to have sex more than once per 2 weeks??? :)

Answer #2

Thanks for the help and I am not really sure why a guy would not want to have sex that often. Kinda weird that we are in the same shoes. Have you tried doing different things like positions or oral.

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