Is he cheating or just losing his sex drive?

I have been married for almost 3 years to a man I met after a 13 year marriage. My new husband cheated on me online with women and also met with women to go to “Swinger” clubs. That itself should have gave me red flag. I don’t believe in cheating and never have cheated on my new husband. Our sex life has went down hill for the last year. When I ask him what has happened I either get don’t kow or we were both feeling bad that week. I have a chronic illness that comes and goes and no matter how I feel I always please him and never can get recipocated. I have mentioned this to him over and over and just last week we had the same argument. Am I reading to much in to this or has he fallen out of love or no longer attracted to me? He is 40 and I am 36. Yes since our marriage in 2005 I have gained some pounds due to medicins and the illness. He always tells me that doesn’t matter and blah blah blah. I am so sick of this argument and the feeling that he is cheating again. PLEASE HELP!!!

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You should’ve divorced him long ago. You’ll never trust him again, and its showing. The only viable option is…

D-VORCE! D-VORCE! D-VORCE!

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