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Is it normal to be scared while questioning my sexual orientation?

Okay, for all of my life I’ve dated only guys. But I’ve always had…thoughts..about girls, and for the most part it has been sexual related thoughts. But a few months ago I met someone… another girl, and I’m falling in love with her beauty inside and out. I mean, I’m not ignorant, and I’m pretty sure these feelings and thoughts would mean I am bisexual? I guess I’m curious to see what someone else would think. A second opinion, if you will? I’m not worried, because I am okay with it. It’s just pretty new. I guess I could be a little scared. But I suppose this is normal?

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Answer #1

if you are questioning your orientation, which you clearly are, then maybe you should try and be with this girl.. just see how it goes…then I think you really will know which you prefer. I agree with you in that being a bisexual is not a bad thing, its being more accepted everyday. but maybe you should experience new things and decide for your self. good luck!

Answer #2

Thank you =) Oh I would be with her. We talked about it for a while..but she’s not ready for that right now. So I’m just going to wait and see how things go I suppose. It’s what I have to do. But there’s no doubt in my mind I have strong feelings for her. If we were ever together, I don’t know how I would tell anyone. My friends would be acceptant. But my family…could be entirely the opposite. =|

Answer #3

Thanks for your story, and congratulations, nothing is wrong with you.

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