How do i tell my parents i don't want to go to ryan's wedding?

my mom would just say suck it up and get dressed

Well.. why don’t you want to go? Is this something you could calmly explain to her?

tell thm i hav a lot of homework or a project to complete..

Hmmm, I’ve probably missed out on a whole chapter of who Ryan is, so do you mind if I ask who he is? Also why don’t you want to go?

ryan’s my older brother, i haven’t seen or heard from him in over 5 years, last week his fiance called and wanted us to come to the wedding, little did i know that my parents already knew cause they visited him and called him frequently, he’s the favorite then my younger brother than me, me and ryan were close growing up but he graduated, no phone calls, emails, or even letters and know he wants all of us to go to the wedding no thanks i don’t know him anymore i still haven’t heard from him he didn’t even call when i got rapp3d or when my best friend bobby past away my parents used to tell him everything before so i have no doubt that they told him that

Odds are they’re not going to accept whatever excuse you come up with. While I understand that you are angry and have every right to be, there is probably a reason he did not keep in contact. He is trying to make amends and reach out to his family in this way. Do you really want to refuse to go and risk never having a relationship with your brother over pride? Yes you have every right be angry, but he is now taking the first step. He did not have to invite you or the rest of the family, but he wants you to share one of the most important days of his life. I know it’s hard, especially at your age (I’m not being condescending, I am just remembering how I thought and felt at your age), to look at the bigger picture. But this isnt about whether what he did was hurtful. It’s about accepting that he regrets cutting you all out, and is trying to make amends.

nice trick nikki ima try it tomorrow

Ahaha :)

he didn’t invited us his fiancée did he invitied my parents not me or my little brother he’s been in contact with my parents since he left i’m doing it for pride i don’t want to go cause he doesn’t have the balls to even call email write or txt me still hasn’t 5 years and counting