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Orgasams are tricky business

My girlfriend gave me a handjob for about 4-5 min and I didn’t cum. She didn’t mind as she said I would last longer when/if we had sex. But I want to. How can I cum more quickly. Also I am trying to find her clit and I having problems. I was told it is above the entrance to her vagina, but when I felt arond there I couldn’t find anythink what does it feel like? Oh year I should also say that I am a 16 year old and this is my first girlfriend, this is all very new to me (and her), so any good sex tips would be wellcome. Thanks a lot for reading this and I hope you can help.

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Answer #1

dear u wont cum vth a hand job for 4-5min..wen u do intercourse only after u get orgasm then only u can cum …..so dont worry.if u cum quickly den u can penetrate ur penis into her vagina…tht clit will be just above the vagina .u just needd 2 hav a closer look at dat point ,it will be in redcolor dude..hope this info help u.have a best date…..

Answer #2

and another thing. its much harder for a girl to orgasim especially if you two are new to this. dont expect her to orgasim first try.

Answer #3

ok. nobody i knows cums from a hanjob in 4-5 minutes.. in fact most dont even cum from a handjob unless they’re masturbating. you dont want to cum fast anyways, so dont worry. sex and blowjobs are a different story. the clit is above the opening.. but way up near the top. its not right next to the opening so ur probably not touching up high enough. its a small circular thing kinda like a tiny peanut between the lips. u should feel it if u just search around. explore her.

Answer #4

sorry u cant penetrate ur ppenis into her vaggina wen u coom b4 intercorse

Answer #5

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